Dear child,
I am writing you this letter for 3 reasons ...
1. There is no guarantee of life, fate and accident, no one knows how long he will live.
2. I am your father, if I do not tell you this, no one else will.
3. What I wrote is my own personal bitter experience - it may save you a lot of unnecessary trouble.
Try to remember these on the way to life!
1. Do not be angry with those who are not kind to you. Because, except for your mother and me, it is not the responsibility of anyone to do you justice. And those who have treated you well - you should evaluate it properly and be grateful. But you have to be careful because every human being has his own purpose in every step. A man is good to you today - that doesn't mean he'll always be good. So don't think of anyone as a real friend too soon.
2. Nothing or no one in life is "essential" that you have to get. Once you understand the depth of the word, the path to life will be much easier - especially when you lose something much to be expected, or find your so-called relatives by your side.
3. Life is short. If you neglect life today, tomorrow life will leave you. So the sooner you learn to evaluate life, the more you can enjoy it.
4. Love is nothing but a fleeting feeling. This feeling will fade over time. If the so-called people close to you leave you, be patient, time will wash away all your pain and depression. Never exaggerate the sweetness and beauty of love, never lose love and exaggerate in sadness.
5. There are many successful people who may not have higher education - this does not mean that you can be successful without hard work or education! No matter how much knowledge you acquire, it is the weapon of your life. Someone may be entitled to lakhs of rupees from a torn kantha, but he must work hard for it.
I don't expect you to help me financially in my old age. Again, I will not help you financially for the rest of your life. When you become an adult, my days of financial support as a father are over. Then, you have to decide - will you use public transport or drive your own limousine; Will be poor or will be rich.
You keep your word, but don't expect it from others. Treat people well, but don't expect others to treat you well. If you do not understand this, you will only get unnecessary pain.
I have bought lotteries for many years, but never received any prizes. This means that if you want prosperity, you have to work hard. Nothing will be collected anywhere for free.
9. It doesn't matter how long I stay with you. Instead, let us enjoy the moments we spend together ... evaluate.
A With love Your father
The father is a child psychologist and a well-known TV broadcaster in Hong Kong. His words apply to all of us, old and young, old and young, children.